This following list are states that use the FERPA loopholes. I have links from specific states that use a template or have a policy to access your childs personally identifiable information. Use the templates as your basis to request the contracts in your state to actually see WHO has your personally identifiable information.
Ohio Data MOU written agreements for Research
http://education.ohio.gov/Topics/Data/Frequently-Requested-Data/Requesting-Student-Level-data
Ohio MOU Template
http://education.ohio.gov/getattachment/Topics/Data/Frequently-Requested-Data/Requesting-Student-Level-data/ODE-Memorandum-of-Understanding-Template.docx.aspx
Ohio Data Sharing Agreement
http://education.ohio.gov/getattachment/Topics/Data/Frequently-Requested-Data/Requesting-Student-Level-data/Understanding-ODE-s-Mou.pdf.aspx
Maine Data Sharing Agreement
http://www.maine.gov/doe/data/policy.html
http://www.maine.gov/doe/data/access-protected-data.html
http://www.maine.gov/doe/data/sample-mou.pdf
Pennsylvania Data Sharing Agreement
Penn Research Requests
http://www.portal.state.pa.us/portal/server.pt/community/data_research_requests/19568
Pennsylvania Student Data Access Policy
http://www.portal.state.pa.us/portal/server.pt/document/1224411/pims_data_access_policy_pdf_%282%29
Pennsylvania Request Documents
http://www.portal.state.pa.us/portal/http;//www.portal.state.pa.us;80/portal/server.pt/gateway/PTARGS_0_123646_1275648_0_0_18/Access%20Agreement%20for%20De-ID%20Data.doc
Pennsylvania Confidential Data Release
http://www.portal.state.pa.us/portal/http;//www.portal.state.pa.us;80/portal/server.pt/gateway/PTARGS_0_123646_1275649_0_0_18/Access%20Agreement%20for%20PIMS%20Identifying%20Data.doc
Pennsylvania Letter of Intent
http://www.portal.state.pa.us/portal/http;//www.portal.state.pa.us;80/portal/server.pt/gateway/PTARGS_0_123646_1275650_0_0_18/Data%20Request%20Letter%20of%20Intent.docx
Pennsylvania Student Data Access Policy
http://www.portal.state.pa.us/portal/server.pt/document/1224411/pims_data_access_policy_pdf_%282%29
Louisiana Data sharing agreement
http://files.meetup.com/1387375/MOU_Fed_Workforce_prr.pdf
http://www.louisianaschools.net/lde/uploads/15450.pdf
Kentucky data sharing agreement
http://education.ky.gov/districts/tech/documents/0003_data_mgmt_policy_1.0_cptapproved.docx
Connecticut data sharing agreement
http://www.ct.edu/files/pdfs/P20-WIN-SDE-MainMOA-signed.pdf
Illinois Data Sharing Agreements
http://www.isbe.net/research/pdfs/data_inst_for_researchers.pdf
http://www.isbe.net/pdf/StudentDataPrivacy-FactSheet.pdf
http://www.isbe.net/research/
Nevada Data Sharing agreements
http://www.doe.nv.gov/home/Nevada_Department_of_Education_-Information_Security_and_Privacy_Policy_final_draft/
Colorado Data Sharing Agreement
http://www.cde.state.co.us/sites/default/files/CDE-DHEDataSharingAgreement.pdf
Oklahoma Data sharing info
http://ok.gov/sde/data-privacy-and-security
http://nces.ed.gov/programs/slds/pdf/OklahomaWDQI.pdf
South Dakota Data Sharing
https://doe.sd.gov/ofm/documents/FERPAshar.pdf
https://www.k12.wa.us/RFP/2014/2014-09/ExhibitT-SampleDataSharing.pdf
Delaware Data Sharing Agreement
http://www.doe.k12.de.us/assessment/files/DOE_Data_Req_Form.pdf
Indiana data sharing agreement
http://www.doe.in.gov/legal/data-and-public-records-request
http://www.doe.in.gov/sites/default/files/accountability/mou-lsa-nov-2013-2011-12-sy.pdf
New Mexico Data sharing agreement
http://www.ped.state.nm.us/SEB/law/REC4Contract.pdf
Kansas Data sharing agreement
http://www.ksde.org/Portals/0/Data%20Media%20Reports/FP2643%20Data%20sharing%20agreement.pdf
Florida Data Sharing Agreement
http://www.fldoehub.org/Research/Documents/Unit%20Record%20Data%20Request%20Packet%20Instructions.doc
http://www.fldoehub.org/Research/Documents/Unit%20Record%20Data%20Request%20Packet.doc
http://sss.usf.edu/resources/topic/childabuseprevention/ElectronicDataSharingAgreement.pdf
West Virginia Data Policy Data Agreements /Page 45+
http://static.k12.wv.us/tt/2014/datamanagement_guidance%20FINAL%201-21-14.pdf
New Hampshire Privacy Legislation
http://legiscan.com/NH/text/HB1587/id/905045
http://nheon.org/oet/readiness/NHPrivacyofStudentRecords-current.pdf
NH Data sharing agreement
http://www.education.nh.gov/data/documents/sample_memor.doc
North Carolina Data Sharing Agreement
http://www.ncpublicschools.org/docs/data/management/research/moa-template.doc
Massachusetts privacy FERPA
http://www.doe.mass.edu/infoservices/data/DESEstudentData.pdf
District of Colombia (DC) Data Sharing Agreement
http://www.neighborhoodindicators.org/system/files/publications/datashare_dc_agree.doc?download=1
College Board Data Sharing Agreement
https://research.collegeboard.org/sites/default/files/ACES%20Data%20Sharing%20Agreement%20on%20web.pdf
Research Papers
Strong Foundations /States with Data Sharing Agreements
http://www.sheeo.org/sites/default/files/publications/20130107%20StrongFoundationsUpdate_FinalcNoAppendices.pdf
Bridging the Divide University if Virginia
http://vlds.virginia.gov/pdfs/VCU.BridgingtheDataDivideReport.020614.Final.pdf
Promise Neighborhood Data Sharing Prototypes
http://www2.ed.gov/programs/promiseneighborhoods/pndataguidance.pdf
States That Are Making it Work
http://forumfyi.org/files/States.That.Are.Making.It.Work.pdf
Ohio Data MOU written agreements for Research
http://education.ohio.gov/Topics/Data/Frequently-Requested-Data/Requesting-Student-Level-data
Ohio MOU Template
http://education.ohio.gov/getattachment/Topics/Data/Frequently-Requested-Data/Requesting-Student-Level-data/ODE-Memorandum-of-Understanding-Template.docx.aspx
Ohio Data Sharing Agreement
http://education.ohio.gov/getattachment/Topics/Data/Frequently-Requested-Data/Requesting-Student-Level-data/Understanding-ODE-s-Mou.pdf.aspx
Maine Data Sharing Agreement
http://www.maine.gov/doe/data/policy.html
http://www.maine.gov/doe/data/access-protected-data.html
http://www.maine.gov/doe/data/sample-mou.pdf
Pennsylvania Data Sharing Agreement
Penn Research Requests
http://www.portal.state.pa.us/portal/server.pt/community/data_research_requests/19568
Pennsylvania Student Data Access Policy
http://www.portal.state.pa.us/portal/server.pt/document/1224411/pims_data_access_policy_pdf_%282%29
Pennsylvania Request Documents
http://www.portal.state.pa.us/portal/http;//www.portal.state.pa.us;80/portal/server.pt/gateway/PTARGS_0_123646_1275648_0_0_18/Access%20Agreement%20for%20De-ID%20Data.doc
Pennsylvania Confidential Data Release
http://www.portal.state.pa.us/portal/http;//www.portal.state.pa.us;80/portal/server.pt/gateway/PTARGS_0_123646_1275649_0_0_18/Access%20Agreement%20for%20PIMS%20Identifying%20Data.doc
Pennsylvania Letter of Intent
http://www.portal.state.pa.us/portal/http;//www.portal.state.pa.us;80/portal/server.pt/gateway/PTARGS_0_123646_1275650_0_0_18/Data%20Request%20Letter%20of%20Intent.docx
Pennsylvania Student Data Access Policy
http://www.portal.state.pa.us/portal/server.pt/document/1224411/pims_data_access_policy_pdf_%282%29
Louisiana Data sharing agreement
http://files.meetup.com/1387375/MOU_Fed_Workforce_prr.pdf
http://www.louisianaschools.net/lde/uploads/15450.pdf
Kentucky data sharing agreement
http://education.ky.gov/districts/tech/documents/0003_data_mgmt_policy_1.0_cptapproved.docx
Connecticut data sharing agreement
http://www.ct.edu/files/pdfs/P20-WIN-SDE-MainMOA-signed.pdf
Illinois Data Sharing Agreements
http://www.isbe.net/research/pdfs/data_inst_for_researchers.pdf
http://www.isbe.net/pdf/StudentDataPrivacy-FactSheet.pdf
http://www.isbe.net/research/
Nevada Data Sharing agreements
http://www.doe.nv.gov/home/Nevada_Department_of_Education_-Information_Security_and_Privacy_Policy_final_draft/
Colorado Data Sharing Agreement
http://www.cde.state.co.us/sites/default/files/CDE-DHEDataSharingAgreement.pdf
Oklahoma Data sharing info
http://ok.gov/sde/data-privacy-and-security
http://nces.ed.gov/programs/slds/pdf/OklahomaWDQI.pdf
South Dakota Data Sharing
https://doe.sd.gov/ofm/documents/FERPAshar.pdf
https://www.k12.wa.us/RFP/2014/2014-09/ExhibitT-SampleDataSharing.pdf
Delaware Data Sharing Agreement
http://www.doe.k12.de.us/assessment/files/DOE_Data_Req_Form.pdf
Indiana data sharing agreement
http://www.doe.in.gov/legal/data-and-public-records-request
http://www.doe.in.gov/sites/default/files/accountability/mou-lsa-nov-2013-2011-12-sy.pdf
New Mexico Data sharing agreement
http://www.ped.state.nm.us/SEB/law/REC4Contract.pdf
Kansas Data sharing agreement
http://www.ksde.org/Portals/0/Data%20Media%20Reports/FP2643%20Data%20sharing%20agreement.pdf
Florida Data Sharing Agreement
http://www.fldoehub.org/Research/Documents/Unit%20Record%20Data%20Request%20Packet%20Instructions.doc
http://www.fldoehub.org/Research/Documents/Unit%20Record%20Data%20Request%20Packet.doc
http://sss.usf.edu/resources/topic/childabuseprevention/ElectronicDataSharingAgreement.pdf
West Virginia Data Policy Data Agreements /Page 45+
http://static.k12.wv.us/tt/2014/datamanagement_guidance%20FINAL%201-21-14.pdf
New Hampshire Privacy Legislation
http://legiscan.com/NH/text/HB1587/id/905045
http://nheon.org/oet/readiness/NHPrivacyofStudentRecords-current.pdf
NH Data sharing agreement
http://www.education.nh.gov/data/documents/sample_memor.doc
North Carolina Data Sharing Agreement
http://www.ncpublicschools.org/docs/data/management/research/moa-template.doc
Massachusetts privacy FERPA
http://www.doe.mass.edu/infoservices/data/DESEstudentData.pdf
District of Colombia (DC) Data Sharing Agreement
http://www.neighborhoodindicators.org/system/files/publications/datashare_dc_agree.doc?download=1
College Board Data Sharing Agreement
https://research.collegeboard.org/sites/default/files/ACES%20Data%20Sharing%20Agreement%20on%20web.pdf
Research Papers
Strong Foundations /States with Data Sharing Agreements
http://www.sheeo.org/sites/default/files/publications/20130107%20StrongFoundationsUpdate_FinalcNoAppendices.pdf
Bridging the Divide University if Virginia
http://vlds.virginia.gov/pdfs/VCU.BridgingtheDataDivideReport.020614.Final.pdf
Promise Neighborhood Data Sharing Prototypes
http://www2.ed.gov/programs/promiseneighborhoods/pndataguidance.pdf
States That Are Making it Work
http://forumfyi.org/files/States.That.Are.Making.It.Work.pdf